European UnionFamily Law
Divorce, custody, child support, spousal support, prenuptial agreements, domestic violence
25 questions
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Divorce Jurisdiction
(4)Which country's law applies to our divorce if we have different nationalities?
In the EU, divorce jurisdiction is generally determined by where the spouses are habitually resident—not by nationality—under Regulation (EU) No 2201/2003.
I'm divorcing my spouse who lives in another EU country. Which court has jurisdiction?
The court in the EU country where you or your spouse are habitually resident usually has jurisdiction, under Regulation (EU) No 2201/2003.
Does the EU require a minimum waiting period before divorce can be granted?
No, the EU does not set a minimum waiting period for divorce — family law, including divorce requirements, remains under the exclusive competence of individual Member States.
My ex got a divorce in their home country without notifying me. Is this valid in the EU?
A divorce granted abroad without notifying you may not be recognised in the EU if it violates the principle of 'due process' — especially if you had no opportunity to defend yourself.
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Child Custody
(5)I have a custody order from Spain but live in Germany now. Is it automatically recognized?
Yes, a Spanish custody order is automatically recognized in Germany under EU Regulation (EC) No 2201/2003, without any special procedure.
My ex took our child to another EU country without consent. How do I get them back?
You can apply for the child’s immediate return under the EU’s Brussels II bis Regulation and the Hague Convention, which require courts in the destination EU country to order return within six weeks if the child was wrongfully removed.
A court in Poland gave me custody. Can I register this directly in Ireland?
Yes, a Polish custody order can be recognised and enforced in Ireland automatically under EU Regulation (EC) No 2201/2003, without needing a new court decision — provided it meets formal requirements.
My child was wrongfully retained in France. How quickly must the court act?
EU courts must decide on applications for the return of a wrongfully retained child within six weeks of receipt, under Regulation (EC) No 2201/2003.
I want to relocate with my child to another EU country. Do I need my ex's consent?
Yes, you generally need your ex-partner’s consent to relocate with your child to another EU country — unless a court has granted you sole parental responsibility or explicitly authorised the move.
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Maintenance Enforcement
(5)My ex won't pay child maintenance and lives in another EU country. How do I enforce it?
You can enforce a child maintenance order across EU countries using the EU Maintenance Regulation (Regulation (EU) No 4/2009), which allows you to apply for recognition and enforcement in your ex’s country of residence without starting a new case.
I want to claim maintenance from my ex who lives in another EU state. Where do I file?
You must file your maintenance claim in the courts of the EU country where either you or your ex resides — usually the country where the debtor (your ex) lives, unless exceptions apply.
We want to agree on maintenance without going to court. Is a cross-border agreement enforceable?
Yes, a cross-border maintenance agreement is enforceable in the EU if it complies with Regulation (EU) No 4/2009 and is formally authenticated or approved by a court or competent authority in an EU Member State.
Which court decides maintenance if both parties live in different EU countries?
The court of the EU country where the person claiming maintenance is habitually resident has jurisdiction under Regulation (EU) No 4/2009.
My ex moved countries to avoid paying maintenance. Can the order follow them?
Yes, maintenance orders made in one EU country can generally be enforced in another EU country under EU Regulation (EU) No 4/2009.
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Marital Property
(6)We married in Italy but live in Belgium. Which law governs our property regime?
Your property regime is governed by the law of the country where you both had your first common habitual residence after marriage — unless you chose a different law in a valid marriage contract.
Can we choose which country's law applies to our marital property?
Yes, spouses in the EU can choose which country's law governs their marital property, provided certain conditions are met under Regulation (EU) 2016/1103.
I'm getting divorced and we have property in multiple EU countries. Which law governs the split?
The split of property in cross-border EU divorces is governed by Regulation (EU) 2016/1103, which applies automatically unless you and your spouse choose a different law in a written agreement.
We signed a prenuptial agreement in Germany. Is it valid across the EU?
A prenuptial agreement signed in Germany is generally recognised across the EU under Regulation (EU) No 1259/2010 (Rome III), but validity depends on the law chosen and compliance with formal requirements in the applicable jurisdiction.
I remarried and want to change the applicable law for our property regime. Is this possible?
Yes, spouses can change the applicable law for their property regime after remarriage, but only if both agree in writing and the new law permits such a choice under EU Regulation (EU) No 1259/2010.
We have a same-sex marriage from the Netherlands. Is it recognized for property purposes across the EU?
Yes, a same-sex marriage legally performed in the Netherlands is generally recognized for property purposes across EU member states, but recognition depends on national private international law rules and may vary — especially where domestic law does not permit same-sex marriage.
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Recognition & Enforcement
(3)My marriage was annulled in one EU country. Is it recognized in all others?
An annulment granted in one EU country is generally recognized in other EU countries, but only if the court had jurisdiction under EU Regulation (EU) No 1259/2010 and the decision meets formal requirements.
A domestic violence order from one EU country - is it enforceable in another?
Yes, a domestic violence protection order issued in one EU country is generally enforceable in another EU country under Regulation (EU) No 606/2013.
Can a maintenance decision from a non-EU country be enforced within the EU?
Yes, but only if the non-EU country has a bilateral or multilateral agreement with the EU (or a Member State) that allows enforcement — otherwise, enforcement is generally not possible under EU law.
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Parental Cooperation
(2)My ex refuses to allow contact with my children across borders. What EU mechanism helps?
The EU's Brussels IIa Regulation (now recast as Regulation (EU) 2019/1111) provides binding rules for cross-border child contact and enforcement of access rights between EU Member States.
My child wants to live with me but the other parent objects. How does the EU court decide?
EU courts do not decide custody directly—national courts of the Member State where the child is habitually resident make the decision, applying EU Regulation (EC) No 2201/2003 and national law, with the child’s best interests as the paramount consideration.