US FederalDoes FMLA apply to same-sex spouses caring for a partner?
Yes, the FMLA applies to same-sex spouses caring for a partner, as federal law defines 'spouse' to include same-sex spouses legally married in any state or jurisdiction that authorizes such marriages.
What the Law Says
The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) entitles eligible employees to take unpaid, job-protected leave for specified family and medical reasons — including to care for a spouse with a serious health condition. After the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in Obergefell v. Hodges (2015) and subsequent Department of Labor (DOL) rulemaking, the FMLA’s definition of 'spouse' explicitly includes same-sex spouses.
To be eligible for FMLA leave, an employee must have worked for a covered employer for at least 12 months, have worked at least 1,250 hours during the previous 12 months, and work at a location where the employer has at least 50 employees within 75 miles.
The FMLA defines 'spouse' by reference to state law — but following the DOL’s 2015 Final Rule (effective March 27, 2015), the definition was updated to recognize a spouse as 'a husband or wife as defined or recognized under State law for purposes of marriage in the State where the employee resides, including common law marriage and same-sex marriage.' This ensures uniform coverage regardless of where the marriage was performed or where the employee lives.
Section 2612(a)(1)(C) specifically authorizes leave 'to care for the spouse, or a son, daughter, or parent, of the employee, if such spouse, son, daughter, or parent has a serious health condition.'
Statutory Text(a) In general.—An eligible employee shall be entitled to a total of 12 workweeks of leave during any 12-month period for one or more of the following: ... (C) to care for the spouse, or a son, daughter, or parent, of the employee, if such spouse, son, daughter, or parent has a serious health condition;
— 29 U.S.C. § 2612(a)(1)(C) — Leave requirement
What to Do
Confirm your employer is covered (50+ employees within 75 miles)
Verify you meet eligibility: 12 months of service + 1,250 hours worked in past year
Provide your employer with notice and medical certification (if requested) for your spouse’s serious health condition
Submit documentation of your marriage (e.g., marriage license) if employer requests verification
Request FMLA leave in writing and keep copies of all correspondence
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Not legal advice. This article is general information based on publicly available sources, written for educational purposes. Laws change and individual situations vary. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction before acting on anything you read here. Last reviewed: 2026-06-08.