US-New YorkFamily Law
Divorce, custody, child support, spousal support, prenuptial agreements, domestic violence
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Divorce Basics
(5)How long must the marriage be irretrievably broken before I can file?
In New York, you must allege that the marriage has been irretrievably broken for at least six months before filing for divorce.
What are the grounds for divorce in New York?
New York allows divorce only on seven statutory grounds, including irretrievable breakdown of the marriage for at least six months, cruel and inhuman treatment, abandonment for one year, imprisonment for three or more consecutive years, adultery, judgment of separation, and separation agreement.
What is the difference between Family Court and Supreme Court for divorce?
Family Court in New York cannot grant divorces; only Supreme Court has jurisdiction over divorce cases. Family Court handles related matters like child support, custody, and orders of protection—but not the divorce itself.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse refuses to cooperate?
Yes, you can get a divorce in New York even if your spouse refuses to cooperate — the court can grant a 'default divorce' after proper service and waiting period.
Is mediation required before going to trial in a NY custody dispute?
Yes, in most New York custody disputes, the court must refer the parties to mediation before trial — unless it finds mediation inappropriate.
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Property Division
(5)How is marital property divided in a New York divorce?
New York divides marital property equitably—not necessarily equally—based on factors like length of marriage, income, and contributions to the marriage.
Is my spouse's professional license or degree considered marital property?
No, a professional license or degree is not marital property in New York, but the enhanced earning capacity it may produce can be considered a marital asset subject to equitable distribution.
How does New York handle separate property in a divorce?
New York is an equitable distribution state, so separate property remains with the spouse who owns it and is not divided in divorce — unless it has been commingled or transmuted into marital property.
What is a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) for dividing retirement?
A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is a court order that divides retirement benefits between spouses during divorce and must meet federal ERISA requirements to be valid in New York.
What happens to the marital home in a New York divorce?
In a New York divorce, the marital home is treated as marital property and divided equitably—not necessarily equally—based on factors like length of marriage, income, contributions, and custody needs.
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Child Custody
(5)How does the court decide child custody in New York?
New York courts decide child custody based on the 'best interests of the child,' considering factors like parental fitness, stability, child’s wishes (if mature enough), and history of care.
Can a court order joint custody if the parents don't agree to it?
Yes, a New York court can order joint custody even if one or both parents disagree, if it finds that joint custody is in the child’s best interests.
Can I relocate with my child after a divorce in New York?
Yes, but only with court approval or the other parent’s written consent — moving more than 25 miles from your current residence or outside New York State is considered a 'relocation' under New York law.
Can grandparents get visitation rights in New York?
Yes, grandparents in New York can petition for visitation rights, but they must prove it's in the child’s best interests and overcome the presumption that parents act in their child’s best interest.
Can a parent lose custody for domestic violence?
Yes, a parent in New York can lose custody if found to have committed domestic violence, as courts must consider domestic violence as a critical factor in custody determinations.
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Child Support
(4)Does child support end at age 18 or 21 in New York?
Child support in New York generally ends at age 21, unless the child is emancipated earlier or a court orders otherwise.
How is child support calculated in New York?
Child support in New York is calculated using the Child Support Standards Act (CSSA), which applies a percentage of combined parental income up to $154,000 to determine the basic support obligation.
Can child support be modified if circumstances change?
Yes, child support in New York can be modified if there's a substantial change in circumstances, such as a 15% income change or passage of 3 years since the order.
Does adultery affect property division or custody in New York?
No, adultery does not affect property division or custody decisions in New York. Courts focus on equitable distribution and the child’s best interests—not marital misconduct.
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Spousal Maintenance
(3)Am I entitled to spousal support (maintenance) in New York?
You may be entitled to spousal support (called 'maintenance' in New York) if the court finds it appropriate based on factors like income disparity, marriage length, and each spouse’s financial circumstances.
How is temporary maintenance calculated during a divorce?
In New York, temporary maintenance is calculated using a statutory formula that considers the income of both spouses, with adjustments for child support and tax implications.
Can a prenuptial agreement be invalidated in New York?
Yes, a prenuptial agreement can be invalidated in New York if it was signed under duress, fraud, or unconscionability, or if there was inadequate financial disclosure.
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Domestic Violence
(3)Can I get an order of protection against a family member in New York?
Yes, you can get an order of protection against a family member in New York if they are a qualifying 'family or household member' and you meet the legal criteria for abuse or harassment.
What constitutes domestic violence under New York Family Court Act?
Domestic violence in New York Family Court is defined as certain criminal acts (e.g., assault, stalking, harassment) committed by a family or household member against another, as outlined in the Family Court Act § 812.
How long does a protection order last in New York?
A protection order in New York typically lasts up to two years for family court orders and up to five years for criminal court orders, but can be extended if needed.